Having a fetish is not and common feeling and may men can have different kind of fetish for hot girls. If you have it in a controlled situation, then you have no reason to worry about it, but if you are showing a lot of passion for same, then you need to get a control on it. In order to reduce the passion for hot girls and control you fetish, you can try following few things and then you will surely get positive result with that in easy manner.
Get a hobby: To control your passion or fetish for hot girls, you can take the help of a hobby. Most of the time your fetish will disturb you only if you have a lot of free time and if you will get busy in your hobby, then you will be able to have a control on it. So, instead of showing passion for girls or your fetish, you can show more passion in your work or hobby and that will help you get a control or hold on your emotions in much better manner.
Do the meditation: Meditation can always help you get a hold on your desires or thoughts and you can take the help of this method to control your fetish for girls also. You can simply try the meditation or yoga and you can have better concentration along with other skills. This will help you get better control on your passion and after that you will be able to have more pleasure also in the company of sexy girls.
Get social: Sometime being lonely can lead you to a complicated situation and it can give you so many mental problems and your fetish for hot girls can be one of those complications. If you will get social, then you will not stay lonely and that will help you get more control on your feelings. Also, it will help you invest your passion in more creative activities and you will not do those things that can harm you in any ways. So, getting social can surely help you get better result in this particular problem.
Do opposite things: normally people would ask you to stay away from things, but if you have a serious fetish for something then trying a reverse approach can actually give you much better result. If you have fetish for hot and sexy
girls, then you can try to meet and date more sexy girls and you can keep doing that until you lose your passion for them. This method of controlling passion may or may not work all the time, but if you are not getting benefit with above method then you can try this method as second last resource.
Here, you need to remember that above method that I suggested might not give the same result to all the people, so people should try these methods on their own risk. Also, if above methods are not helping you to get control of your passion for girls, then I would suggest you to contact a good therapist that can help you in this regard.